A selection of links to articles and other suggestions for your healing:


  1. 1.Heal Grief in Your Body and Soul by Rondi Lightmark, M.A. - a comprehensive list of suggestions for ways to take care of body, soul, and spirit after loss.  Published by Body and Soul magazine on the anniversary of the 9/11 attacks in New York City.


  1. 2. Where are the Dead? an excerpt from an audio talk by the late Irish poet/philosopher and former priest John O’Donohue


  1. 3. A Question of Naming by Rondi Lightmark - an extraordinary story about the  appearance of a wild duck in a most unusual place--and what the gift meant. Published in “When a Life Mate Dies: Stories of Love, Loss and Healing” (Fairview Press).


  1. 4. A Way to Grieve by Sogyal Rinpoche - adapted by Rondi Lightmark from The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying.


  1. 5. A poem by Mary Oliver about a violent death in nature and a different way to think what took place.




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